Being amazing is about managing compromises. You can’t have it all.
If you want six pack abs you can’t have beer every night. If you want to build a business you better be willing to work weekends. No more galas. (Do people even go to galas, anymore?)
It sometimes helps to think of goals more in terms of what you have to give up than what you have to get done. This puts you in a more realistic mindset. The getting done for people is fairly easy. It’s the giving up that’s hard.